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A men’s group for those who carry responsibility well and don’t want to disappear inside it.

This group is for men who are relied upon. Men who show up. Men who provide.

Men who hold things together.


Often, these men are not in crisis. On the outside, life is working. On the inside, something has narrowed. Joy feels thinner. Presence takes more effort. Responsibility has slowly shifted from something chosen to something endured.

From a Deep Well is for men who want to steward their lives, families, and work in a way that is grounded, relational, and sustainable — without becoming hollow, resentful, or distant in the process.

This group does not serve motivation or uplifting rhetoric, coaching or skill-building, or a space for venting without accountability. It is not designed for crisis stabilization or clinical triage. Men who are looking to be inspired, taught, reassured, or rescued will likely find this group frustrating rather than helpful.

This is a contained group for stable men willing to examine their strategies for carrying responsibility.

The work prioritizes clarity over performance, presence over endurance, and responsibility that is chosen rather than absorbed.

The Work We Do

Men in this group focus on:

  • Separate responsibility from obligation, guilt, and fear

  • Name limits without withdrawing or hardening

  • Reinstate tenderness as a strength, not a liability

  • Distinguish duty from direction

  • Become more present in life and family

The aim is not to carry more — but to carry what is truly yours, in a way your life can sustain.

Who This Group Is For

This group is best suited for men who:

  • Are functioning and dependable, but feel the quiet cost of it

  • Carry responsibility in their families, work, or communities

  • Are willing to question strategies that once worked but now exact a price

  • Want to be more present without abandoning what matters

This group is not a good fit for men in acute crisis or for those seeking motivation, reassurance, or answers from someone else.

Structure & Commitment

6-week closed group

6–8 men

Weekly 90-minute sessions

$1,250 flat fee for the full group

Enrollment is selective. A brief consultation is required to ensure fit and to protect the integrity of the group.

A Final Word

This group is not for men who want to feel more impressive.

It is for men who want to become more grounded, more present, and more human — without stepping away from the responsibilities that define their lives.


This group is selective by design.

If you’re interested, start by submitting a brief request below.

I’ll review it and reach out to schedule a short consultation to determine fit.